E + E Podcast Episode 33: Navigating Parenthood From The Non-Birth Partner Perspective
Listen to Episode 33
“A good bench player is constantly cheering on and getting excited and pumped when the starter does well. And when doesn’t and is struggling, has their back, is patting them, ‘you’ve got this’, and is supportive. So we have to notice when someone is the starter, when someone is in the leading role of the parenting, and instead of being critical or passive and removed and not involved, we still have to be involved”
— ELI WEINSTIEN, LCWS
ABOUT THE EPISODE
We are bringing you the non-birth partner’s perspective today. Eli Weinstein is a licensed clinical social worker therapist of The Dude Therapist podcast. He works with couples and specializes in anxiety, relationships and parenting. He’s a husband and a father of two and is really open on Instagram about the mental struggles that Dad faces.
Eli covers topics including how bringing their first child home affected his relationship with his partner. He talks about what the bonding experience felt like with his child as the non-birthing partner. We chat about how common postpartum depression is in men and what symptoms we can look for. It can also be tricky to talk to your partner about seeking help if they are experiencing these symptoms. Eli gives some good tips on how to approach this sensitive subject.
Mom guilt is such a common topic these days. What about Dad's guilt? Is that a thing? Eli shares his take on why it might seem easier for Dad’s to carry on with their lives after bringing a baby into the relationship.
We loved our conversation with Eli and know that you will find his take on things insightful and eye opening. This is an episode that you’re not only going to get a lot out of but you’ll be sharing it with your partner as well.
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